There were 2 shiurim tonight with many frum single good looking guys and girls, and NO dates came out of it. Not ONE single date. In fact, even though they came to discuss 'Survival in Dating" none of the guys or girls talked after the event!
The guys mostly walked out immediately after the event, then the guys who were left talked to the guys and the girls talked to the girls.
There were lots of really put together, cute looking guys and girls there.
Starbucks should have been FILLED tonight.
The problem with dating is a much deeper issue than putting people in the same square footage of one another.
To start with, people don't talk to each other because:
1) they think it's WRONG
2) they don't know HOW
3) FEAR of what others will think
4) Misguided beliefs about dating, the opposite gender, and oneself
Wrote long post on this topic, but it was lost, need to go to bed, will write more later...
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